Reflections on the Myth

We have a sense of self. That may be amorphous or in patches or have a feel of the misty and shroudy is another question altogather. The fountainhead of all action/misaction/inaction is always the self. May be a relationship should nurture the sense of self in a very balance. The sense of self mostly comes from appreciation of a given matrix/matrices. And self is heavily dependent on thought. We think about everything, mostly, except the self. Thoughts are by nature post transaction, that is they are about. Thoughts are never it. Always about. But if we look at all our endevours it is mostly this post transaction analysis that has got us where we are at, good/bad whatever.Any kind of analysis depends on data that is frozen inlinear time. I am digressing a little. But it seems evaluation of a relationship is not possible without looking at our thought processes. On reaching a point of continous awareness, when there is no bull and no clover for the bull, there wont be any wandering mind.